falling in and out

Relationship is made of multifaceted acts, happenings, and feelings. Memory and rumination, pleasure and pain. Especially in this age ...




Relationship is made of multifaceted acts, happenings, and feelings. Memory and rumination, pleasure and pain. Especially in this age of high technology world, what do you get to keep? what you ought to show? Relationship standard these days is very gritty and grey. 



moire top. zara shoes. skagen watch. gifted bag. necklace is sold in my carousell shop


Arguing is romantic, sacrificing everything looks normal, showing tears is becoming trend. Does love means "it is romantic to have violent, screaming fights?" The image of love has been altered through the years, moreover in the millenials. Is all you need is romantic love with rainbows and butterflies? Does every girl need to be rescued? Is all love a good love?







Media often romanticize relationship way to much - either it is all about the fluffy kind of love or even the abusive one. Frivolous and romantic love is so often being the idealized image of love and heartbreak becomes more of like a serial drama. In accordance to that, there are times when people jeopardize their careers, education or real happiness in exchange for a happily ever after. Well, actually how many times can you fall in and out of love? 




No matter which stage of relationship you are in, try to keep destructive and impulsive behaviour to a minimum. So often we are in rage and suddenly we forget everything including our other half's feeling. So often we make empty promises. So often we dissapoint our significant others. So often we fail just to listen. Just remember that if you truly love someone, your love will be so much grater than your anger, and your relationship itself is so much more important than just winning an argument. Automatically, our egoistic side will just dissapear because we don't want to make our partner feels sad or alone. Lastly, at its best, love is beautiful and lively, it's what makes us do goodness to others, yet it does not have to hurt so much, you will be enjoying all the process.



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  1. It looks so simple yet cute. I would like to try this for work! :)

    Lots of love, Eiren.
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  2. Great look. Great words.
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  3. Oh my gosh, you're adorable! I love this look on you!
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  4. That skirt is so pretty! Love how you styled it xo, sharon

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  5. You look super cute pretty! I love your outfit.

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  6. I adore your super chic, elegant outfit! I'm particularly in love with your black crossbody. :)

    xoxo
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  7. Such a deep post...love should definitely make you want to be better for the other person and you should complement each other's strengths. I love this outfit and the skirt is so pretty. xoxo Christine
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  8. Lovely look!

    xx
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  9. Love this look <3

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  10. Beautiful look!

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  11. I agree, it's best to keep destructive behaviour to a minimum and always be respectful to our significant other. You look gorgeous by the way!

    xo
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  12. Lovely outfit, the skirt is gorgeous~

    Vivian | LIVE . IN . LOVE

    ~

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  13. Love this simple and chic look!
    xo
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  14. The post is so great! Have a nice day:)

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  15. You look beautiful babe, rocking this look!

    Love from London,
    Whit

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  16. You look stunning! Beautiful thoughts!

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  17. I really love how much effort you put into writing this text and you did such a great job! It reminds me very much of a column of carrie bradshaw, was a pleasure to read for me!
    Have a great weekend!
    x Eva
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  18. Simply beautiful! love the skirt!

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  19. Lovely words.

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xoxo,fhenny

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