equilibrium - a new year reflection
Hello everyone! I haven't updated my blog for quite some time and would like to take this opportunity to post for my new year reflection. The blog has been an integral part of my life since years ago, and this time it is no different.
If you told me to describe how I feel now, I would say I am in currently in a state of equilibrium, which I feel I am in a balanced state and feel neutral towards things. I feel 2022 is my year of grow up and glow up. I know it ain't pretty when your fire burns out, but then in the end I ignite my own flame again. If you now look at a bow and an arrow, I feel like I was pulled back and stretch so far, which at a point in time I didn't know if I could ever going to make it. Yet, when that arrow is released, I soar so much higher and much further than i thought I could ever reach. It is a year of miracle happened and dreams did come true. I have learned so much things throughout the year and I feel I am ready to put everything and everyone no longer serves me behind. Infinite gratitude to the universe and to the people (including my blog friends) who always support and love me even though at times I don't feel so lovable. I have also learnt the art of detachment. I realise that I essentially do not "own" anything or anyone, in a sense that everything has its own season and maybe the universe just lend them to us in a way.
I feel that we are here maybe on earth for a short period of time, therefore I wish to maximise the time to do what I mean to do, to be my own true self, pursue my life purpose and use the time I have to spread love and light. Above all, this year I learn to prioritise myself first and give myself the love I deserve. I create a healthy boundaries with anyone and anything. Goodbye my old version of me that needed everything I experienced in 2022. Goodbye to what was only meant to be on my life for a season. Thank you for making me a better person. I have grieved my old self and now I am ready to embrace my new life ahead of me. It's now upward and onward in 2023. I hope this year brings you peace and ease and remove anything that isn't. I hope it brings you home to yourself and at the same time leads you to everyone who loves you and to everything you are meant to pursue in this lifetime. You are full of infinite magic and possibilities to create everything you want, never think you are not enough. At the same time, trust the creator and the universe that they are conspiring to work for your highest good and letting you live in your highest timeline in this lifetime. That is the power of the universe and that is the power that is within you.
"Ad Astra per Aspera" -to the stars through difficulties.
So what's for 2023? For the mean time, I have several travel trips planned for 2023 already. One is work related and one is my own yearly birthday sabbatical trip. I would share more about it later on. I plan to dive more into spiritual work in 2023 so I maybe take a longer retreat or workshop. I am continuing my journey in yoga, meditation, and reiki, also perhaps would love to study a new thing or two like astrology or lithomancy. If you are curious, you can follow me on my instagram for upcoming updates. Wishing you a beautiful 2023 ahead!
Love this reflection! Your purpose is spot on. You look amazing in this red dress!
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I love the dress. Lovely post. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year. Have a great year.
Annie,
Annies Food Diary
Glad to see you back on the blog :) Happy New Year! xo
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Beautiful your red dress!!
ReplyDeleteI really wish that 2023 will be a year of peace, tranquility and that all the good things that didn't happen in 2022 will happen this year.
I was curious about this lithomancy thing, I never heard about it.
Happy new year, much success and amazing things for you! ♥
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Beautiful your red dress!!
ReplyDeleteI really wish that 2023 will be a year of peace, tranquility and that all the good things that didn't happen in 2022 will happen this year.
I was curious about this lithomancy thing, I never heard about it.
Happy new year, much success and amazing things for you! ♥
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You all already have 2023 planned, enjoy yout trips and have a lovely year.
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This dress looks so good on you.
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It was wonderful to read this and I love how you realize that life is short. I'm all about embracing it because of that.
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Jodie
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Great reflection and thoughts! Thanks for sharing this! Love your stunning dress!
ReplyDeleteWell you look like a great you to me! But yes lets all turn over a new leaf and be better versions or ourselves and WOWZIE this dress is fire and looks amazing on you!!
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Looking forward to seeing more from you! Happy New Year, I hope you have magnificent trips! <3
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I love reading your reflection and purpose for the new year! Love that red dress on you!
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So beautiful ♥
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Your dress is amazing! xx
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happy new year! I hope that 2023 is filled with a lot of good things for you and you do manage to make the most of life and do everything you have planned :)
ReplyDeletePretty photos!
ReplyDeleteIt's so good the enter the new year with this feeling and prospective of the life!
ReplyDeleteYou really made my day reading your post, dear! Wanna enter on that mood me me too!
You look wonderful with that red dress, wishing you all the best for the new year!
XO
S
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You look fab in that red dress!
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I love your outlook for a brand new year! And I actually have "ad astra per aspera" as a tattoo because I love it so much!
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-Ashley
Wishing you a happy 2023 and love that you already have trips planned for the year :)
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I hope this is your best year yet! x
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Hello dear,
ReplyDeleteFirst of all I hope your year is going well! Even tho we chat on Instagram, I missed your content over here since I love your vision of things and I always end up very inspired.
The idea of entering a new season with a clear mind and knowing that you still want that equilibrium while pursuing new things is just perfect. Lately I am feeling this way and even tho there are days that are not the best, I try to see the big picture and understand that everything is a process to achieve my best version :)
Thanks for your constant good vibes and for your support during these years!
The photos in this blog post are marvelous!
Pablo
www.HeyFungi.com
Great reflection. Wishing you so much success in achieving all of your goals this year!
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ReplyDeleteAbsolutely beautiful, loving all your photos and wishing you a fab start to the Year! Can't wait to see more of your posts! :)
ReplyDeleteLayla xx
https://www.sprinklesofstyle.co.uk
Your planned birthday sabbatical trip sounds rejuvenating.
ReplyDeleteYou look fabulous in all three of the different outfits you styled and were wearing in the photos of you above.
Best wishes for your birthday sabbatical and for all of the years ahead. xx
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Wow...such inspiring and in-depth thoughts...so beautifully expressed...thanks for sharing dear :-)
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Such a fabulous dress! You look very beautiful.
ReplyDeleteHave a lovely day