avant noir






forever 21 tank top. jacket from hongkong. zara boots and skirt. by invite only quartz necklace.









chanel eye shadow. sephora eye liner and blusher. dr gl lipstick. etude eyebrow pencil. l'oreal mascara.


Because, despite all of that, despite what you convince yourself when you’re alone by yourself 
watching all of those sappy romantic comedies that remind you of your failed relationship even if they have nothing in common or when you’re out with a huge group of friends and you’re smiling and laughing at people’s jokes and nodding your head at a story that someone is retelling for the umpteenth time and you’re dancing maybe and you smell like clothes and skin and sweat and youth or you’re flirting madly with some dark boy in an even darker corner or drinking or smoking or anything at all, he was still a part of you, and it doesn’t matter if he only managed to get underneath that first layer of skin or burrow completely into the deepest dark of you. He was something to you, which makes him important, which makes his presence necessary, which means you miss him now that he’s gone. It’s strange how these things work, really, and we can convince ourselves that it’s the other person’s loss and it is, to some extent, because you are wonderful and beautiful and lovable, you are, believe it, but remember that if he left you, if he hurt you whether he meant to or not, then he isn’t worth missing or crying over or spending a month in your bed over because getting up and going outside means there’s a chance you could see him. It is okay to be sad about this and to feel his loss and to live with this pain for a while, but you will heal. You must heal. There will be other boys and some will go and others will stay when you decide to leave and they will worry over the same things after you are gone. Accept that he is probably not going to come back and then cry, rinse, and repeat. 

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  1. Great look on you beautiful. Do you have bloglovin if not add your blog for we could follow each other its a convenient way to see ypur post and not miss it also you would get alot more followers. Let me know when you do.
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  2. You look gorgeous darling, love your blog and your style !

    wanna follow each other on GFC/FB and Instagram ?

    Kisses
    Hannah
    Elegantesque Blog

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  3. nice jacket and skirt!
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  4. fabulous, I love the whole outfits.

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  5. Love your slick leather jacket, looks so elegant with the chic dress.

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  6. Super blog : ) Do you want to follow each other?
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  7. You are so beautiful, darling! I'm dying over that gorgeous jacket. You style them perfectly!

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  8. I stumbled upon your blog and I am so in love with your ensemble in this post... however, I read everything you've written and that's what struck me the most. It was inspirational and it just made me smile when I finished reading it. Thank you. :)

    I followed you, hope you follow me back. :)

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  10. i really love your skirt and your necklace, and you look so beautiful here xx

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  11. Perfect style beauty ! I love your skirt :)

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  12. great high low dress and I love Zara I just got a quilted MC jacket from there that I LOVE.

    Ali of Dressing Ken

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  13. I love the cut of the dress and how you paired it with the leather. Very nice outfit. Thanks for posting the photos and eel free to drop by me too anytime

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  14. ciamik singapore.. lagi patah hati ini??
    cup cup.. sini ke bandung aja meetup ama aku and anita.. hihi
    GNO! girls night out ;p

    anyway, cool outfit lhaaaa ;D

    <3
    The Sweetest Escape 

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  15. always love the black outfit.
    super <3


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  16. Loving the all-black + high-low hem! So gorgeous, doll!

    -Ashley
    http://lestylorouge.com

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  17. wow, you look realy great! and I love the photos. ;)

    many kisses,
    Monica

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  18. Amazing look! I love the skirt <3 I have a similar one
    xx
    http://wastedyouthwithyou.blogspot.com.es/

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  19. gorgeous! black is never fail and your style is match really well with black color, perfect look dear <3

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  20. CUTE!! love your necklace and your black outfit <3

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  21. Great look ! I love your shoes :)

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  22. you look beautiful!
    stunning as usual!

    ♥,
    claireteressa.blogspot.com

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  23. amazing, love the leather jacket
    <3

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  24. Very cute outfit! I love this combination.

    <3 Emi
    www.silverandlemon.com

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  25. Hello lovely, thank you for the sweet comment on my blog, I really appreciate it! :)

    You have a beautiful blog, I am your newest follower! :)

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    xoxoxoxo

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  26. nyaaaw cantik as always ;) love the jacket anw!

    x
    sartob

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  27. lovely!
    come visit my blog in your spare time

    sweet and sugars,
    DIAS

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  28. Fabulous look dear! Love the details and styling!
    Kisses from Miami,
    Borka
    www.chicfashionworld.com

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  29. Amazing outfit !!
    I really like your dress :)

    Xx
    Mélinda

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  30. Great stylisation, nice pics.


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  31. I love an all black outfit, this is so nice!

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